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Cheater's dent
I don’t remember who told me this, but the indentation on your wedding ring finger left behind when the ring is not there is referred to as the “cheater’s dent.” I thought this was a common phrase...
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There is no spoon
An interesting little exchange on Twitter about Tom’s chastity/denial matrix. I was trying to formulate a response but found the Twitter construct limiting so I’m doing it here. The exchange was this,...
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Kept
Time really has lost all meaning. I was about to start this post with “the other day, Tom blogged…” and then, when I went to get the link, I realized “the other day” was like more than four months...
View ArticleJack and Rose and the base code
I was thinking last night after one or another of the dogs decided that 1:04 AM was exactly the right time to get up and take a piss in the back yard that at some point my natural reaction to being...
View ArticleWhat I want. Really, really want.
I used to write here several times a week and that meant Belle would read this several times a week. But as I’ve found myself having said most everything I needed to say (several times over, it feels...
View ArticleYou are not me
Someone on Twitter asked me a simple question with a complicated answer. I answered them there (via DM) but wanted to expand (as I am wont to do). If only I had a blog or something… They asked, “How...
View ArticleThe one about the p-word in which I don’t use the p-word
Belle chose not to let the contents of the Steelheart out yesterday even though it was Father’s Day here in the United States and it’s kinda sorta how I became eligible to celebrate (or be celebrated)...
View ArticleOne and a dozen
Neither Belle nor I can remember the last time I had a real, full, man’s orgasm. Like when she lets me fuck her and, as soon as I enter her, she whispers in my ear, “I want you to come in me.” She...
View ArticleIt is better to give than receive
The first and most basic rule of my being kept is that Belle decides when and how the chastity device contents are used, always every time. Even in #Locktober. She is not bound by hashtags. So it was...
View ArticleRubbing one out
It started innocently enough. Belle and I were watching some TV before she had to get on a conference call. Her job requires her to get on work calls at odd hours. Sometimes very early, sometimes at...
View ArticleGetting to now
It should not be much of a surprise to anyone reading this that I find the idea of fucking Belle with the strap-on to be many times more of a turn-on than using the contents of the Steelheart. There...
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Mailbag
Two quick chastity nerdery inquiries. Got this question over on Twitter: I mean, I haven’t been in the market for a custom cage for a long time and it may be that my advice is out of date, but I would...
View ArticleThe two types
It seems to me there are two kinds of men in chastity. Men with cocks locked in chastity devicesMen with chastity devices I think way back at the dawn of time when Belle locked our first CB6K on me, I...
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Koala Munchkin review
TL;DR version: DO NOT BUY THIS THING. Normal version: Super minimal chastity devices appear to be a growing (lol) segment of the market in recent years. I have even reviewed one or two on my blog, but...
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Contents
I just spent a week and a half wearing the Cobra chastity device made by KINK3D (though I bought it from Mr. S). It’s a device I’ve been seeing a lot of lately and I decided to give it a try and write...
View ArticleThe confidence of the contained
What with Covid receding (in the US, anyway), life is starting to return to some kind of normalcy. One part of that is our daughter now goes to school four days a week rather than being remote as she...
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Polling
Sometimes I ask questions on the Twitter in the form of the polling feature and then I’m immediately frustrated by its limitations. For one, I can only ask questions that have four answers. Then...
View ArticleStress
The past few months have been daunting for me. Mostly related to dealing with an aged parent and being an only child, but contributing to the stress has been a significant home remodel project (which...
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Polishing the knob
It’s been more than a decade now since I first put on the Steelheart I usually wear. That kind of blows my mind (which is the only thing getting blown around here, badum CHING). And, honestly, there’s...
View ArticleEmbracing the vestigial state
Even though it was in the middle of Hashtag Locktober, Belle decided she wanted the contents. As is the custom now, she gave me the key the night before the morning she wanted to get fucked. I need...
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Cobra chastity review
Gather ‘round, children, and let me tell you about The Bad Old Days of male chastity when devices were made of hard injection molded plastic and had sharp edges and seams that would split and trap...
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Transubstantiation
Last night I was opining on the Twitter about how I perceive my body. I had been out for a few hours that morning so I could get though the airport security gauntlet (with the family or I probably...
View ArticleReflections on the care and feeding of a locked penis-having person
A few days ago, Locked Doc wrote a post called “How to Own a Permanently Locked Sub.” And it’s great and while I was reading it, I was thinking, Damn, why haven’t I ever written something like this?...
View ArticleMeditations for the chastity submissive
Being a man kept in chastity isn’t something you just do. I mean, sure, you can just do it. Order a device on the interwebs and lock it on yourself the very moment it arrives. Then…wait. In fact,...
View ArticleBe ready
Belle let me come last weekend. She gave me the key Saturday night meaning I was to go though my routine the next morning while she slept so that I’d be ready when she woke up. I call it “my routine”...
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Badass Workroom BA-31P review
Badass Workroom (BAWR) is, as far as I can tell, a relatively new entrant in the male chastity device market. I first found out about them in the fall of 2021 and I ordered the device I’m reviewing...
View ArticleDevice déjà vu
A couple Twitter followers took me to task for reviewing the Badass Workroom BA-31P: I couldn’t have said this better myself, supporting these overseas company’s that are ripping off the original...
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Holy Trainer Nano v5 review
Our friends at Holy Trainer are back with a newly revised fifth version of their eponymous device. Click past the jump for all the deets. I’ve reviewed the Holy Trainers all the way back to their...
View ArticleBack in my place
I’ve been back in the Steelheart for the past 21 days after briefly trying out a new device (the Cherry Keeper which was a bit of a disaster but I have another one coming so there’s no review yet)....
View ArticleSubsidence
My entire life, I can remember nothing but being attracted to all genders. Never, ever can I recall not finding just about anyone attractive. Even before I knew what sex was, I knew that sometimes...
View ArticleFourteen
Today is the 14th anniversary of the first time a chastity device was locked onto me (which means we’re also a little over a week past the fourteenth anniversary of the start of this blog). It’s hard...
View ArticleEvotion evolution
I mentioned the other day that we were going to start exercising more key discipline. Specifically, my “emergency” key would be secured with a numbered tab and hers would be inaccessible to me. Either...
View ArticleDreaming of paradise
I’m sitting at gate G10 at MSP waiting for my thrice-delayed, once gate reassigned holiday flight out of the frozen wastes of Minnesota in the middle of what’s being described as an historic, category...
View ArticleThe hand-to-pants paradigm
Guys, no matter their age, orientation, relationship status, or hair color all have one thing in common. They stick their hands in their pants. Maybe they do it in front of the TV. Maybe they do it...
View ArticleMexican rubdown
Belle decided that today, our last full vacation day in Cabo, that we’d have a 90 minute couples massage at our villa. I think couples massages are kinda creepy but I think massages are amazing and...
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290
The other day I wrote: “I have absolutely no memory of the last time she wanted to use the contents. I’ve been thinking hard about it and have no clue.” And since I’m just laying here in the middle of...
View ArticleAddicted
I continue to be extraordinarily horny. Really, ever since that massage. The night of the massage I bet I didn’t sleep two hours. I did fall asleep, but pressure from the device woke me up and then...
View Article#PussyFree
I have been thinking quite a lot about the prospect of never getting to fuck Belle again. I mean, I thought about it a lot before I knew I may never get to again, but that was when I thought I might...
View ArticleGoal setting
It’s that time of year when we set goals for ourselves. Which is an interesting thing to do with regard to the stuff I talk about on this blog since literally none of the things are technically under...
View ArticleKinky pancakes
There’s a special thrill that runs through me when my fingers find Belle’s wet pussy each time she lets me get her off. I’m not so old (or haven’t been locked up so long) that I can’t remember what it...
View ArticleOceans away
Belle took off to Europe for a week last night and my “emergency” key went with her. It was a spur of the moment kind of decision but there really isn’t much use for an “emergency” key in the Orion...
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One is enough
One of the many, many things I think about now that Belle’s apparently decided I’m done being let out of chastity for sex ever again is what it felt like sliding into her after she let me go down on...
View ArticleAll boned up and nowhere to go
Belle let me put the Steelheart on today. I was in the Orion for over 93 days and, while I love it as much now as I ever did, I really miss steel. Steel is, like, one of my things. So shiny and hard...
View ArticleFalse advertising
I go to the gym twice a week and work out with a trainer. I’ve been seeing this guy for years now. For so long, I remember being in the CB-6000 when I first started with him. I remember being freaked...
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February stats
Just a quick post to recap February. I was in the Evotion Orion for most of the month and was able to change into the Steelheart towards the end. I was out for two approximately one hour periods due...
View Article365
Today is the one year anniversary of the last time Belle let me fuck her. The last time she let the contents out for anything other than fact of life-type necessities. When I did the sleuthing to...
View ArticlePreferences
Belle had my balls in her hand while we were kissing this morning. Probably the Orion, too, but you know — all I can feel through the Orion is how tight it is on inside. She was squeezing them gently...
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50/50
There was a point while wearing the venerable Steelheart last month when I realized I didn’t want it on anymore. Which is not to say I wanted out. What I wanted was for the Evotion Orion to go back...
View ArticleWankless woods
I recently got back from another week in the woods with muggles and, as always, I was locked up. Being camping in the wild in that condition does create its own considerations, but this time around...
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ThumperGPT
So, I continued to play with ChatGPT 4.0 (see last post) and asked it… My spouse is interested in employing enforced male chastity in our relationship. Can you tell me the plusses and minuses that are...
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